I love when people highlight those around us who make the world a brighter place. I think when we focus too much on the negative we become negative. So thank you for sharing Matthew with us.
Some people just have that gift, and it's not toxic positivity...they just really embody being alive. Just had to share Matthew with you all. Thanks for reading!
My son went to rehab after brain cancer surgery, and he spoke often about a night nurse who would stay and talk with him in the wee hours when he couldn't sleep. They didn't talk about his cancer or treatment; they talked mostly about food. My son was hungry all the time because of steroids for brain swelling, and this man would describe all of the delicious barbecue he made when he wasn't working at the hospital. Even though my son became vegan at diagnosis, he delighted in hearing all of the juicy, meaty details.
I never learned the night nurse's name, and my son is not here anymore, so I can't ask him. This nurse's presence provided comfort to a young man whose life had changed profoundly and irreversibly, and I am grateful. Maybe his name was Matthew, too.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. Maybe his name was Matthew, too :) These angels on earth give so much to us all in our hard moments, even when we weren't touched directly. They touch us all. Just amazing. Much love, and honoring your son's story.
I am a pediatric hospital chaplain and I am so touched by your reflection. I am so grateful Matthew was a companion and source of comfort for you and Lou. I’m here to say, Matthew without a doubt thinks of you both often too.
Thank you Ed. :) I'm so happy you're reading my stories. If I can't have dinner with you every week well at least I can write these! With a side of caviar on ice :) !
In my hospital in Paris there was a massage therapists coming every Thursday. She was my Matthew. No talking necessary, just the body and mind at peace for 30 minutes a week. Thank you for bringing me memory of this beautiful person.
I think holding complexity is an energy we need to highlight and foster more of this day and age, so I’m grateful you are doing just that. We don’t need to pick a side, or declare an opinion, most of the time just being present and empathetic is far more powerful. ♥️
I love when people highlight those around us who make the world a brighter place. I think when we focus too much on the negative we become negative. So thank you for sharing Matthew with us.
Some people just have that gift, and it's not toxic positivity...they just really embody being alive. Just had to share Matthew with you all. Thanks for reading!
My son went to rehab after brain cancer surgery, and he spoke often about a night nurse who would stay and talk with him in the wee hours when he couldn't sleep. They didn't talk about his cancer or treatment; they talked mostly about food. My son was hungry all the time because of steroids for brain swelling, and this man would describe all of the delicious barbecue he made when he wasn't working at the hospital. Even though my son became vegan at diagnosis, he delighted in hearing all of the juicy, meaty details.
I never learned the night nurse's name, and my son is not here anymore, so I can't ask him. This nurse's presence provided comfort to a young man whose life had changed profoundly and irreversibly, and I am grateful. Maybe his name was Matthew, too.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. Maybe his name was Matthew, too :) These angels on earth give so much to us all in our hard moments, even when we weren't touched directly. They touch us all. Just amazing. Much love, and honoring your son's story.
I am a pediatric hospital chaplain and I am so touched by your reflection. I am so grateful Matthew was a companion and source of comfort for you and Lou. I’m here to say, Matthew without a doubt thinks of you both often too.
Thank you, that means so much :) Thank you for the work you do and for your kind words., and for sharing.
"But he selflessly left his story at the door, and in doing so, I loosened the grip around my own."
What a poignant and beautiful insight about how to really care for and be there for someone. This will stick with me...
Thank you Ed. :) I'm so happy you're reading my stories. If I can't have dinner with you every week well at least I can write these! With a side of caviar on ice :) !
beautiful Alexa! You are a Matthew!
As are you! We can try our best to be Matthews together in our kick pants! xx
In my hospital in Paris there was a massage therapists coming every Thursday. She was my Matthew. No talking necessary, just the body and mind at peace for 30 minutes a week. Thank you for bringing me memory of this beautiful person.
Oh what a beautiful gift that must have been. Thank you for sharing with us.
May we all be a little more Matthew whenever we can. Thank you, Alexa, for bringing light into this grey day.
Yes! Thank you for reading. Here's to finding that bit of Matthew for today. :)
Thinking of my own Matthew today, and I’m so grateful, thank you for the reminder in these words.
To the Matthews! Thank you, friend x
I think holding complexity is an energy we need to highlight and foster more of this day and age, so I’m grateful you are doing just that. We don’t need to pick a side, or declare an opinion, most of the time just being present and empathetic is far more powerful. ♥️
Yes, just showing up for what is. I agree, especially these days we are living in. Thank you for sharing. :)
I’m currently resisting looking at results of my latest labs and this was comforting to read, thank you.
I had labs yesterday while I finished writing this. Glad to offer even a moment of comfort. Sending understanding.